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Apr 8, 2025April 9, 2025

Tool of the month: The Power of Laughter (or Smiling) during your Healing.

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There is nothing funny about healing from the pain caused by a sex addict but allowing yourself to experience laughter or a smile along the way can be incredibly helpful.…

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Jan 8, 2025January 12, 2025

Tool of the Month:  Positive Self-Talk  

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We all know positive self-talk is crucial for self-esteem and emotional well-being.  However, it’s even more critical when one is healing from betrayal trauma because it can impact how one…

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February journal promt: How can you show yourself "self-love" this month?
Jan 22, 2024January 31, 2024

Tool of the Month:  Journaling

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When it comes to betrayal trauma healing, journaling isn’t just writing to be writing.  Journaling is a way to explore your doubts, emotions, and pain.  Thankfully, this tool can be…

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Dec 11, 2023January 31, 2024

Tool of the month: A therapist who the partner’s healing journey. (Part 2)

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What to consider when seeking a therapist: 1.  Is the therapist specialized in working with partners of sex addicts or betrayal trauma? For me, I wanted a therapist who got…

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Dec 4, 2023January 31, 2024

Tool of the month: A therapist who understands the partner’s healing journey.  (Part 1)

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A therapist skilled in working with partners of sex addicts can be essential to betrayal trauma healing.  I constantly harp on the fact that we are dealing with betrayal trauma. …

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Feb 24, 2023

Tool of the Month:  Dance Aerobics

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This month’s Tool of the Month is Dance Aerobics.  Before you roll your eyes or ask, seriously?  Please hang in there with me before you conclude this blog entry is…

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Oct 4, 2022October 4, 2022

My experience with Support groups – Pt. 2

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Therapeutic support groups facilitated by a professional therapist I started attending a Codependency support group at the suggestion of my therapist.    The opportunity to learn how codependency manifested in my…

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Aug 4, 2022August 4, 2022

TOOL OF THE MONTH:

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NATURE…a worthy refuge There are physical, mental, and emotional benefits to experiencing nature, especially if you are healing from betrayal trauma.  My house backs up to the wilderness, so it…

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Jun 6, 2022June 8, 2022

Tool of the Month:  Restorative Yoga

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I chose Restorative yoga as the tool I want to highlight this month.  Restorative yoga has been a great tool for my healing journey.  Restorative yoga is defined as “a…

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May 8, 2022June 19, 2022

Affirmations – if you speak it, you can believe it. I believe you can heal well, my friend!

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Affirmations are one of my favorite tools. I used affirmations at the beginning of my healing journey. Today, I use them when I need to pause and examine how I…

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I started this blog because I couldn't find a resource that validated what I felt when I learned my husband was a sex addict. All I wanted was frank talk, no definitions, recovery speech, or minimization of what I was feeling. I hope you feel validated, heard, and understood when reading my blog posts. I try not to give advice; I share my experience with each topic to provide partners of sex addicts hope for their healing from betrayal trauma. To learn more, please read the "My Story" tab at the top of this page. If you like what you see and find this blog helpful, please share it with others; no one should feel alone on this yucky journey. I would love to hear from you. Please contact me at joy@betrayednotbroken.com. Most importantly, please remember you deserve to give yourself the time to heal well from betrayal trauma.

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Smiling

April Journaling Prompt:

 

 

 

What puts a smile on your face despite what you may be going through?

 

 

 

February Journal Prompt: List ten things you love about yourself and why.

February Self-care Challenge:  Spend at least one hour doing your hobby this month.  If you don’t have a hobby, this is the time to explore until you find one you enjoy.

 

May Journal Prompt:

How can you be easier on yourself this month as you continue to help from betrayal trauma?

Self-Care Challenge:

Make a list of ten affirmations you can say to yourself daily.

 

 

March Journal Prompt:

What do you appreciate the most thus far about your healing journey?

Self-care Challenge:

Do something this month that makes you smile.