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Sep 25, 2023January 31, 2024

HEALTHY SEXUALITY FOR PARTNERS OF SEX ADDICTS—YES, IT’S POSSIBLE!

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My goal in this blog entry is to share how I arrived at a definition of healthy sexuality that makes sense for me at this stage of my healing.   Partners…

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Jun 27, 2023June 27, 2023

Take it easy on yourself!

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I will never stop saying healing from betrayal trauma is challenging and requires much work for the betrayed partner to heal well.  It has been one of the most difficult…

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May 15, 2023May 16, 2023

The INSANITY of Sex Addiction

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When I first realized my husband was a sex addict, I bought many books, read all I could find online, and studied my materials from the groups I attended to…

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Apr 17, 2023April 20, 2023

Self–Compassion:  Be kind to yourself!

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Everyone told me the healing journey would take a lot of work which I interpreted as climbing a mountain without breaks, water, or rest.  If hard work is what it…

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Feb 24, 2023

Tool of the Month:  Dance Aerobics

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This month’s Tool of the Month is Dance Aerobics.  Before you roll your eyes or ask, seriously?  Please hang in there with me before you conclude this blog entry is…

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Jan 16, 2023March 22, 2023

Welcome to 2023: 

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What I hope for each of you this year! Welcome to 2023!  How have your first two weeks been thus far?  Whether or not you want it, time keeps moving,…

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Dec 23, 2022February 1, 2023
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Are you dreading the holidays because of your betrayal trauma healing?  Do you wonder if and how you will enjoy yourself?  If so, please remember to “Keep it Real”! Enjoying…

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Nov 28, 2022

ANGER – Friend or Foe for Betrayal Trauma Victims (Survivors, Thrivers)?

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Anger is a normal emotion one experiences once they’ve discovered their partner is a sex addict.   After all, how else should one respond when they find out their significant other…

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Oct 24, 2022

Needs and Self Care

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What comes to mind when you think of self-care?  Some may think of a day at the spa, a shopping spree, sipping wine, a bubble bath, or treating yourself to…

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Oct 4, 2022October 4, 2022

My experience with Support groups – Pt. 2

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Therapeutic support groups facilitated by a professional therapist I started attending a Codependency support group at the suggestion of my therapist.    The opportunity to learn how codependency manifested in my…

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I started this blog because I couldn't find a resource that validated what I felt when I learned my husband was a sex addict. All I wanted was frank talk, no definitions, recovery speech, or minimization of what I was feeling. I hope you feel validated, heard, and understood when reading my blog posts. I try not to give advice; I share my experience with each topic to provide partners of sex addicts hope for their healing from betrayal trauma. To learn more, please read the "My Story" tab at the top of this page. If you like what you see and find this blog helpful, please share it with others; no one should feel alone on this yucky journey. I would love to hear from you. Please contact me at joy@betrayednotbroken.com. Most importantly, please remember you deserve to give yourself the time to heal well from betrayal trauma.

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April Journaling Prompt:

 

 

 

What puts a smile on your face despite what you may be going through?

 

 

 

February Journal Prompt: List ten things you love about yourself and why.

February Self-care Challenge:  Spend at least one hour doing your hobby this month.  If you don’t have a hobby, this is the time to explore until you find one you enjoy.

 

May Journal Prompt:

How can you be easier on yourself this month as you continue to help from betrayal trauma?

Self-Care Challenge:

Make a list of ten affirmations you can say to yourself daily.

 

 

March Journal Prompt:

What do you appreciate the most thus far about your healing journey?

Self-care Challenge:

Do something this month that makes you smile.