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Author: Joy P. Jamison

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Apr 8, 2025April 9, 2025

Tool of the month: The Power of Laughter (or Smiling) during your Healing.

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There is nothing funny about healing from the pain caused by a sex addict but allowing yourself to experience laughter or a smile along the way can be incredibly helpful.…

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Feb 17, 2025February 18, 2025

Partners of Sex addicts have rights

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For me, the Bill of Rights was something to learn about to earn a good grade in school. I knew about Civil and Women’s Rights, but the Bill of Rights…

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Jan 8, 2025January 12, 2025

Tool of the Month:  Positive Self-Talk  

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We all know positive self-talk is crucial for self-esteem and emotional well-being.  However, it’s even more critical when one is healing from betrayal trauma because it can impact how one…

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Nov 18, 2024November 19, 2024

There is no Magic Formula for his healing.

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I’ve witnessed many women come to support groups with one burning question, “What will it take to fix him so our life can get back to normal?”  Don’t we wish…

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Oct 23, 2024October 26, 2024

Defining “acceptable” and “unacceptable” behavior with your sex addict on your healing journey.

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How do you define “acceptable” or “unacceptable” behavior when interacting with your sex addict?  Many of my blog entries refer to “acceptable” and “unacceptable” behavior, assuming readers have clarified this…

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Sep 4, 2024September 15, 2024

For the addict: Your partner most likely will never be the same if she’s taking her healing seriously. (Part 2)

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5. Your partner may ask more questions than she did before repeatedly, such as: – How late will you be home from the work event? – I noticed you withdrew…

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Aug 28, 2024September 3, 2024

Insights for the sex addict: Your partner most likely will never be the same if she’s taking her healing seriously. (Part 1)

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When partners begin their healing journey, they usually experience shock, disappointment, emotional distress, or possibly PTSD.  With time, these betrayal trauma symptoms decrease. Partners tend to evolve into their best…

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Jun 25, 2024June 25, 2024

STUCK- a harsh reality of individual and couples healing impacted by sex addiction

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Do you ever feel stuck in your healing process? If you answered “yes,” please know it’s not uncommon.  Whether you feel stuck in your healing or your relationship with the…

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May 20, 2024May 19, 2024

The role of faith leadership when it comes to counseling others regarding betrayal trauma and sex addiction.

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The faith community can be the foundation for one’s healing from sex addiction or betrayal trauma, leading them to seek counsel from their pastors, preachers, clergy, cardinals, priestesses, bishop, rabbis, reverends,…

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Apr 8, 2024March 27, 2024

You can be INTENTIONAL in your healing. (Pt. 2)

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Intentional healing can also be considered a mindset that drives one to heal well or not at all.  The healing efforts are worth it because of the benefits.  If one…

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I started this blog because I couldn't find a resource that validated what I felt when I learned my husband was a sex addict. All I wanted was frank talk, no definitions, recovery speech, or minimization of what I was feeling. I hope you feel validated, heard, and understood when reading my blog posts. I try not to give advice; I share my experience with each topic to provide partners of sex addicts hope for their healing from betrayal trauma. To learn more, please read the "My Story" tab at the top of this page. If you like what you see and find this blog helpful, please share it with others; no one should feel alone on this yucky journey. I would love to hear from you. Please contact me at joy@betrayednotbroken.com. Most importantly, please remember you deserve to give yourself the time to heal well from betrayal trauma.

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Smiling

April Journaling Prompt:

 

 

 

What puts a smile on your face despite what you may be going through?

 

 

 

February Journal Prompt: List ten things you love about yourself and why.

February Self-care Challenge:  Spend at least one hour doing your hobby this month.  If you don’t have a hobby, this is the time to explore until you find one you enjoy.

 

May Journal Prompt:

How can you be easier on yourself this month as you continue to help from betrayal trauma?

Self-Care Challenge:

Make a list of ten affirmations you can say to yourself daily.

 

 

March Journal Prompt:

What do you appreciate the most thus far about your healing journey?

Self-care Challenge:

Do something this month that makes you smile.