April, 2022 - Betrayed, Not Broken

Apr 25, 2022April 17, 2022

A Cost Letter can be very Helpful (Pt. 2)

Why is writing and reading the Cost letter important for your healing? It’s one thing not to be ready to take this step, but it’s another thing not to see…

Apr 17, 2022April 17, 2022

A Cost Letter can be very Helpful (Pt. 1)

General Share 1

Writing and sharing a Cost letter was a significant step in my healing process. Although this took place years ago, I must share my experience with this and stress how…

Apr 6, 2022

Tools for Healing: Meditation

Tools for you! 1

Different things might come to mind when people hear “meditation.” For example, a highly spiritual person on top of a mountain meditating in the sun, a yoga fanatic, a hippy,…

I started this blog because I couldn't find a resource that validated what I felt when I learned my husband was a sex addict. All I wanted was frank talk, no definitions, recovery speech, or minimization of what I was feeling. I hope you feel validated, heard, and understood when reading my blog posts. I try not to give advice; I share my experience with each topic to provide partners of sex addicts hope for their healing from betrayal trauma. To learn more, please read the "My Story" tab at the top of this page. If you like what you see and find this blog helpful, please share it with others; no one should feel alone on this yucky journey. I would love to hear from you. Please contact me at joy@betrayednotbroken.com. Most importantly, please remember you deserve to give yourself the time to heal well from betrayal trauma.